- A mother immediately loves & knows instinctively what her baby needs.
- A mother should be able to devote herself fully to her baby.
- The birth of a baby brings huge joy, happiness & contentment to a family.
- A mother should be able to bond quickly with her baby to prevent long-term damage to the child.
- Maori & Pacifica mothers have better whanau support & are less likely to get PND or related conditions.
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Why is it important to identify these mothers and families?
Treatment and support is available
- relationships fall apart
- children suffer
- mothers become isolated
- families are strained
- rarely, serious consequences occur
With help, most of this can be prevented.
Reality is more like:
“having a baby gives you so much, yet you lose so much of who you are- your independence and freedom”
In reality, having a baby can bring huge joy & happiness but a new journey for mothers, fathers & their families begins with many highs and lows.
Sleepless nights.... crying baby.... tiredness.... responsibility.... breastfeeding problems....
A mother does not necessarily fall in love and bond with her baby immediately. Mothering is not instinctive.
Extra help & support is needed. It is OK to ask for this help & support. Mothers & fathers need “time out” from their baby.
The journey may not easy. A mother can get unwell & become sick with PND, anxiety, bipolar disorder or psychosis. This is not uncommon.
Help is available for mothers, fathers & families/whanau.
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